Christian advice on dating cheating
Openness can provide emotional support as well as accountability and unity.
When intimacy and communication fail, the individuals become self-seeking in the marriage, trying to extract what they desire from one another instead of serving one another.” His marriage check-up includes the following questions: Kimmons’ experience suggests another question: “Do I talk to someone outside my marriage more than I talk to my spouse?
The beginning of such a relationship may be innocent, but its continuation is not.
Gaither puts it this way: “In general, cheating is the wayward partner’s attempt to get needs met outside the marriage.
The person is emotionally available and they start communicating through Facebook,” Kimmons explains.
“Within a short amount of time, the sharing of personal stories can lead to a deepened sense of intimacy, which in turn can point the couple in the direction of physical contact.” An errant spouse may not set out to do wrong.The person may simply be curious about what an old friend or an old flame is doing and decide to say “hello” online, Kimmons says.