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We don't make them jump through hoops or complete arbitrary potential-girlfriend assessments. So, the next time you hear a dude tell you that you need to prove your worth as his future significant other during the "Netflix and chilling with no title" stage, please understand that just because he wants to be in you, doesn't mean that he's into you.Lincoln Anthony Blades blogs daily on his site, This Is Your No woman should be out here "trying out" to become a man's woman, giving all of herself to a guy who doesn't have the courage or conviction to commit to her in the most basic way.The truth is, the dudes who proclaim the delayed benefits for women who do the most while waiting out the "talking" stage, are mostly men who just want to sleep with as many women as possible while knowing that the woman they're with is not out there doing the same. It's a selfish and weak ploy that men use to discourage women from weighing multiple options at once, because if that happened, she might realize that she doesn't have to stand for the garbage ol' boy is putting her through.What I meant was that relationship-minded single women should never settle for the BS ideology that the minimal title of "girlfriend" must be exhaustively auditioned for during an undefined situationship.The idea that a woman should give a man her loyalty, her trust, her body, her soul and her spirit to a dude in order to gauge whether or not she "deserves" to receive monogamy is disrespectful.
So, with that in mind, why in the world would I want a woman to be uniquely loyal to me, especially when I'm damn sure not providing that favour to her?While cowardly dudes push this cheap ploy to extract unearned exclusivity, many women are flocking to this idea as being gospel when it's complete and utter crap. When you're seeing a mature, honest, grown ass man during the early parts of the "getting to know each other stage," we really don't want your monogamy.