Ideas for dating your spouse
And men are much more visually stimulated than women are.
, because it gives them an impetus to really pursue women.
So what do you do if you’re a woman, and you’re married to a guy who doesn’t want sex–or at least doesn’t seem that interested in it very often. Maybe he has an abnormally low sex drive; or maybe it’s some other relationship or psychological issue.
We’ll talk about how to understand what’s going on better, and then give some strategies about how to deal with this.
When men use porn, in general they masturbate as well.
And so it becomes quite likely that eventually they will stop desiring their wives in the same way.
When I was conducting the research for my book The Good Girl’s Guide to Great Sex, I asked thousands of women how often they made love, and who had the higher sex drive: she or her husband (along with other questions). And while in the majority of cases the husband has the higher sex drive, in about 20-25% of marriages the woman does. And before we get going, I want to assure you that usually the reasons your husband doesn’t want sex –and much to do with him.
That’s why the idea that porn can be exciting in a marriage is so off base.