Is debby ryan dating anyone 2016
What was weird was that I didn’t realize all the unhealthy things — the digital abuse, him demanding my phone passwords, the mental abuse, the manipulation, the emotional abuse.” Debby’s message is especially poignant because of the position of power that she has as both a famous and financially successful young woman.Outsiders were often unaware that the Disney star was being abused, until close friends finally began to question the invasive behavior of Ryan’s now ex-boyfriend.I probably wanted someone to fight for me and to get jealous and crazy.And you look at these sorts of things and you say, ‘Not normal behaviors,’ but it’s interesting because you can look up warning signs and try to figure it out but ultimately…Debby Ryan, the star of Disney’s hit show "Jessie," may seem to have it all, but her fans may be surprised to know the actress/singer was once in an abusive romantic relationship.Ryan has teamed with cosmetic company Mary Kay to bring awareness to the issue of dating abuse, which they say impacts one in three young people today.What I think is really important is that a lot of people my age don’t realize that either this is where habits are formed, this is where behaviors begin, this is where things start to progress in a way that can sort of, if you’re not careful, can spiral out of control.
And that was the point that I realized maybe there was a red flag.
Ryan: For me I’m very fortunate because I had people, when I got to that point, which I don’t want any of my friends to ever get to, that point, I don’t want anyone who hears about this to get to that point. Ryan: That was so hard, because of this is in some way being convinced or trained to justify it and to deny it, and that was a huge thing. ” People who didn’t see what it was but we’re like, “Ok, you’re on hour nine hanging out and you want to have a one hour girls’ night and he’s inviting himself along, and he won’t let you leave are you sure you want to hang out with him?
I want people to know, don’t look away, that’s the whole slogan for this, if you see this happening to your friend. I had people fighting for me saying, “I feel like this isn’t right? ” People asking me questions was a little bit of what woke me up but I think it was definitely a moment.
The Disney star talked openly about how young women are often unaware of what is normal and abusive in a relationship like Ryan herself, which often leads them to become trapped in even more violent situations when it’s already too late to leave.
“[We are all] taught that there are signs that your [in] relationship, something is wrong.
I got to a point of being grabbed, being locked out of rooms, being screamed at, having things thrown at me, cussed at, begged for forgiveness, cried to, all while trying to keep it together and justifying this relationship. And you look at these sorts of things and you say, "Not normal behaviors," but it’s interesting because you can look up warning signs and try to figure it out but ultimately, you know what I love about Mary Kay, if it weren’t for the people in my life that helped get and keep this person out of my life, if it weren’t for the boy that I was getting to know and falling in love with at the time, this different boy to show me what real love was, I don’t think I would have known.