Worst dating advice
Then they end up more frustrated than ever and can’t understand why. Therefore, they don’t like to put other women in uncomfortable flirting situations. So they give guys advice to NOT flirt with a girl until they know she’s 100% interested.
Here’s why women aren’t always the best source for men’s dating advice. Receiving disturbing or threatening messages online. They talk about how flirting with a random girl is creepy and that you should never do it. The act of flirting, showing your interest, and taking initiative is what starts to turn women on. You HAVE to be assertive – playing it safe almost always makes women place you in the friend zone.
And this isn’t because female friends want you to be forever alone.
But, their advice can actually hurt your chances more than it helps you.
Many women have had horrible interactions with men. Plenty of of women will be open to flirting with you. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with flirting as long as you’re flirting with respect.
When you go to a friend for help, it’s usually because you’re feeling shitty.
You become even more frustrated and blame everyone else.
When her clients get friend-zoned, she tells them to be more bold and work towards creating a sexual connection. I know this because I’ve dealt with countless men who follow their female friends’ advice perfectly.
I’m not saying that you shouldn’t get a woman’s point of view on your dating life.
Their insight comes from a place of compassion – and that’s usually a big part of the problem.
She told me about her past frustrations with “nice guys” who’d always ask permission before doing anything.
She now advises her own brother to be more forward and flirtatious with girls he likes.It’s not about changing who you are but rather learning to express the best version of yourself.